Most of us have seen the Wizard of Oz. In the movie the great and powerful Oz is this huge figure that is glowing green and has a loud boisterous voice booming through the room with smoke and fire bellowing out around him. He is a fearful, intimidating being that scares everyone who comes in contact with him. The funny thing is that the actually Oz is a mild and meek person hiding behind a curtain. He is actually a timid man but when he is able to hide behind the curtain he is able to be forceful and boisterous.
We each have a man behind the curtain. Each of us has a different personality or way that we would be if we were able to hide behind a curtain and no one were able to see our true selves. Sometimes that would be a very good thing and we would be able to share more about who we really are and voice our opinions which we may not normally do. Others of us may be more wicked or mean spirited, we may try to do things that we shouldn't because the true us is behind the curtain.
Recently I've found out some information about a really close and dear friend of mine who I love very much. The information is not good and makes me believe that I don't really know who he is. It confuses me and I am at a loss because I don't approve of his behavior. What I am trying to work through is whether or not the person that is my close friend is the real him with the loving, kind, wonderful heart, or is the real him the person that makes bad decisions and does things that I don't approve of? Which one of these personalities is my friend's real personality and which is his man behind the curtain? I don't know and that is hard.
I think it is probably a combination of the both.
Have you every thought about your man behind the curtain? Would that be a good or bad thing for you? I am not sure what mine looks like and who I would come across as. I hope it would be a good thing.
I think the goal is for us to be the same person whether we are in front of or behind the curtain. It's like I tell my youth kids all the time, I expect you to be the same person at church that you are out in the world. I know it is hard with peer pressure and other influences out there in the world but we must be true to who we are and who we want to be. I hope that your man behind the curtain is more like the man in the mirror for you. A reflection of who you truly are.